Start off by placing ribs in a glass casserole dish, rub with oil and then
with salt and pepper. Now flatten ribs as much as possible and add water
just to barely cover them.
Simmer in oven for 1 to 1 1/2 hours or just until tender;
When ribs are finished in the oven, drain them, start grill on medium and
allow to heat.
Cover with foil and brush (or pour) on just a small amount of oil to keep
ribs from sticking/burning. Brush on first layer of bbq sauce after
draining.
Once grill is heated, place ribs on grill. Cook covered for 5-10 minutes,
then brush on bbq sauce. Grill another 5-10 minutes, keep adding bbq sauce
until there is a thick layer of bbq sauce.
Grill 5 more minutes to finish cooking bbq sauce, then serve.